The What-Ifs

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Poor Bruce.

For three Saturdays in a row, he made up excuses for not going to the meadow to play with his forest friends.  After being asked by his friends why he didn’t want to come out to play, Bruce said, “If I come out and play, something might happen.”  When asked what would happen, Bruce’s imaginary what-if creatures came out of his head and clung tightly to his antlers.

“What if I leave my home and clouds come, and it rains, and I slip and fall and hurt myself?  Or what if I try to cross the bridge and it breaks and I fall into the stream?  Or what if I make a mistake playing a game and you all laugh at me?”

It had been many years since I had set foot inside the Children’s Room at our local library. After taking a walk up town today and listening to my bladder beg me for relief,  I decided to use the facilities at the library, which are right next to the Children’s Room.

One hour later, I was still in the library watching all the toddlers and babies reading with their care givers, singing the Itsy Bitsy Spider song, playing with the germ-infested toys that haven’t been replaced since 1965 and sitting comfortably in the very tired looking bean bags.

Oh, the memories.

Spending time in the Children’s Room for hours was my kids’ favorite pastime   It was right up there with going to the candy store.  The only disappointing aspect of their visit was having to limit the number of books they could check out in one day.  They wanted them all.

Bruce Moose and the What-Ifs, was one of our favorites.  I had seen it on display on one of the shelves and was intrigued by the title.  A book that talked about anxieties, worries and overcoming what-ifs?  Yes, please.  We read that book together on many occasions.  It was the go-to book when my son was anxious about the bees outside, the go-to book when my daughter was afraid to take the training wheels off and the go-to book when starting kindergarten.

Bruce Moose taught my kids to speak sternly to their what-ifs, telling them to leave them alone.  He showed them that the more secure they felt about themselves, the quicker the what-if creatures would disappear.  A “pop” sound would be heard every time a what-if was overcome. Pop! Pop!  Away went the worries.

I could not resist.  I looked up the book on the library computer system and saw that it was available.  It was waiting for me to check it out.  Right in the same shelf we frequented nearly 15 years ago.

As I sat on my couch reading it, I realized that I too needed Bruce to remind me how to handle the case of the what-ifs.  “What if I feel too lonely when the kids are gone? Or what if try something new and I make a fool of myself?  Or what if I am not smart enough to succeed?”

Thank you Bruce Moose, for your wise words.

Now 20 and 18, I cannot wait until my kids get home from their respective jobs today and re-aquaint themselves with Bruce  .

39 thoughts on “The What-Ifs

  1. I was thinking, why don´t you volunteer at the library once a week and read to children? You always loved it and you can inspire and advise so many kids (and adults too!)

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  2. With all the books we read when the kids were growing up I’m surprised I haven’t heard of Bruce Moose but what a delightful sounding story dealing with important themes… I could do with reading it myself right about now… bet your kids were amazed when you showed them the book that evening 😉

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  3. There was a time when my library did not put a limit on the number of books you could take out. I would get 70 or 80 at a time. Now the limit is 20. I probably ruined it for everyone.

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  4. I never read that book, but I so remember that feeling of going to the library and having to figure out how to ONLY take the highest limit they allowed. And I like the idea of “POPPING” my What Ifs, I’ll try that out this weekend.

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  5. A fabulous book, and one that wasn’t out when my son was little. I can relate to re-discovering my own favorite childhood books (Harold and the Purple Crayon and The Lost Playground). Thanks for sharing.

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  6. This book should be read by adults as well as kids – I don’t know how many times I’ve been rooted to the spot by my What-Ifs (my biggest one was ‘what if I tell people I write stories and they all judge me or worse laugh at me). We all need a bit of Bruce’s wisdom, no matter our age.

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  7. Darling Maria, where was that book when I was growing up?! But also, you’re a bringer of goodluck, because your name was last night drawn out of an imaginary hat. Yay! (When you have a chance, if you email me your mailing address, good voodoo will come your way…) 😀

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    1. We all suffer with the case of the what ifs, huh? No matter what age. It made me so nostalgic to read it today and made me happy to think of all the situations it assisted with.

      YES, my kids are hard working and are earning a nice chunk of money this summer. They are well rounded kids. I am blessed. 🙂

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  8. My son is 11, but diagnosed with sever anxiety disorders that I inadvertenly passed down to him. It sounds as though the book might be more for that of a small child, but my interest is piqued. I think I’m going to order a copy anyway. Thanks for sharing!!

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      1. So do I. I wish I knew of the book as he was growing up. Now, he’s working with his illogical fears (glowing red eyes at night that he saw in the Saw movies with his father, my EX-husband). Yup… 11 years old, still wetting the bed, because he’s afraid to leave his room at night. Awesome. He lacks any sense of self confidence, but I’ve enrolled him in karate which seems to be helping… Thanks again for bringing this to our attention.

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    1. I don’t believe it’s a well known book. It’s part of a Wonder Woods Adventure set dealing with fear, anger, sadness and worry from 1996. If I hadn’t seen it on the shelf a long time ago I may not have heard of it either. 🙂

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